“I do” can also mean “I’m fucked”.
These days, you do not have to get married…so why do it?
NEVER marry a women in less than 5 years. You never truly know a woman until you have been with her for 5 years. This is a fact that has been proven over hundreds of years. Women change…men often do not.
Any woman that places an ultimatum on you is not worth marrying.
Remember that biological clock is much later than she thinks….she can have kids when she is 40 safely these days.
Any woman that uses sex as a reward or punishment is not worth keeping.
Sex is a very important part of the relationship…if the woman says otherwise. Let her go because sex will dry up after marriage and you will regret ever meeting her.
If you are not best friends before marriage, if you don’t have the same likes or values…it probably won’t work.
Opposites attract….but they don’t marry or stay married long.
Do not marry until you are financially smart and prepared to do so. Expect to lose 30-50% of your income to your wife, then another 25% for your children.
Never marry unless the woman is physically active and without the need of a personal trainer. Women that aren’t physically active will get out of shape and make excuses for it and expect you to love them for who they are on the inside.
Men have more to lose in marriage than women: Power, freedom, individuality, Friends, money, respect, possible promotions or job prospects, your sex life, personal space and then finally your family if you get divorced.
Women are more likely to want divorce than men.
Children are not a requirement!
Don’t marry a woman unless she has a good job as well.
Protect yourself and always get a prenuptial agreement. If she won’t accept, kick her to the curb. You will eventually find someone but remember that being a bachelor is fun too, so enjoy it.